We know intellectually constructive criticism and rejection will be part of the writing process, yet we are often unprepared. In addition, juggling every day responsibilities and establishing a solid writing schedule amid time constraints can lead to disorganization and times when we sabotage our very success as writers.
Sabotaging ourselves is easy. With its many disguises it insidiously creeps up in the form of revisions, platform building, tutorials, tally counting, and discouragement, to name a few.
If you have ever found yourself doing any of the following, you might be sabotaging your writing success and perhaps it’s time to reevaluate.
- · Obsessing over a story or chapter–Revising to the point you can’t seem to move forward.
- · Obsessing over a rejection or critique–Taking it personally rather than learning from the experience.
- · Obsessing over another’s numbers - Number of stories or novels published; the number of Twitter, Facebook, or Pinterest followers they have compared to you. As a result you spend more time on social network sites than writing.
- · Obsessing over learning rather than doing – Reading or attending every how-to-write-the –best-novel book, class or seminar without ever translating the knowledge into a story or novel.
- · Obsessing over time – Constant complaining over not enough time, schedule interruptions; lack of planning, no set schedule, timetable or goal.
- · Obsessing over a blank page – Writer’s block or missing muse.
- · Obsessing over the negative rather than the positive - Allowing discouragement, resentment, and anger to sap your creative energy.
Each one of us has chosen our path in life and defined our own success. However, to achieve our dreams and goals we must be able to recognize obstacles in our path, including the ones we often place. Patterns of sabotage can lead to talented writers never throwing their hands up in frustration, never seeing their dreams come to fruition; however, once recognized these patterns can be changed and success is but a keystroke away.
What do you think? Do writers sabotage themselves? Have you? I'd love to hear your comments.
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